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Digital Dating and Dating Apps: Attracting the Right People, Recognizing Red Flags (Ghosting, Breadcrumbing etc.)
Dating apps are supposed to make finding connections easier, however Between ghosting, limited real communication opportunities, and endless swiping, it’s completely natural to doubt yourself and wonder why the right connection feels so hard to find.
When single clients come to me wanting to find a partner, they ask me about using dating apps. Of course, using dating apps is a good way to get a connection started. However, I tell them, the real dating algorithm isn't on your phone—it's running inside your subconscious mind.
With SRT, I focus on clearing two core topics: loving and valuing yourself and knowing what you want in a partner. However, another aspect is clearing the sabotaging imprints and beliefs that drive our unsuccessful online dating experiences:
The Paradox of Choice
The endless options of matches make you hesitant to commit. SRT clears you to focus on the connections you have made, moved offline, and are happy with, instead of wondering if the next swipe is a "better" connection.
The "Pick Me” Imprint
SRT clears the subconscious belief that you have to be picked. It takes you out of your power zone. SRT clears so you know your value, changing the dating app experience of constantly swiping, stopping the cycle of allowing in low-effort partners who offer breadcrumbs.
Fantasy Imprints
Communication entails voice, tone, facial expressions, body language, and spontaneity. Online dating inhibits real communication. You may tend to be drawn in by the love bombing. SRT clears so you recognize when you are projecting and creating fantasies, especially when you haven’t met the person in real life.
The Mask of Inauthenticity
When you feel the need to hide your real self, you end up attracting partners who are also hiding behind a mask. SRT clears the belief that you must edit, shrink, or hide parts of yourself to be chosen—allowing your true frequency to naturally attract an authentic, emotionally honest partner.
Ghosting & Disposability
The anonymity of dating apps makes it easy to disappear. It also makes you feel guarded and not open up to those who are making an effort to be authentic. SRT clears blocks to trust and openness.
As a final essential step, SRT clears your subconscious blocks so that you are 100% open and receptive to attract love. SRT clears hidden walls, fears of intimacy, and self-protecting shields—ensuring that your heart center and energy field are open to attract, allow, and receive a high-vibration partner.
SRT Professional Training class: 2026 (#8) Digital Dating and Dating Apps: Attracting the Right People, Recognizing Red Flags (Ghosting, Breadcrumbing etc.)